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Ayushi Singh's avatar

I seriously wished you keep going with this piece😍😂🙌

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Sakhi Singh's avatar

hahaha i am glad you liked it. thankyouu for reading!

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Aliena's avatar

Ah yes, the obsession and discard cycle aka lovebombing. You unfortunately learn to enjoy the highs and start backing out at the first few red flags.

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Sakhi Singh's avatar

oh yes definitely!

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navindaki's avatar

this was hilarious! your writing style is so witty and clever, I absolutely loved it! 💗

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Sakhi Singh's avatar

hello! thankyou for reading! so glad you liked it :)

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Utkarsha Srivastava's avatar

It was a fun read. The whole piece resonated my story. We are in the same boat or most of us.

I remember, two years ago I met this guy through an App. Since he was in another city, we talked over phone, texted etc, for around a month or so. A day before he was supposed to come and visit the city, we had lovely talk over phone and next thing you know I was ghosted without any reason. Few months passed by, I stopped wondering that this happened and happily moved, and there comes a text from this unknown number saying "I am sorry for ghosting. I thought it was wrong etc etc. Give me another chance etc etc." And then here it was me who respectfully said goodbye and ghosted him forever.

Hence, men just can't make up what they want and it is rare to find a good breed. 🥲

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Sakhi Singh's avatar

oh man. this is horrible. you deserve the WHOLE WORLD seriously! sometimes the trash takes itself out, honestly. i hope you’re doing better now and i am glad you liked reading this <3

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Shambhavi ♥‿♥'s avatar

This post should be called cool girl monologue

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Sakhi Singh's avatar

YOUVE MADE MY WHOLE WEEK WITH THIS HAHAHA THANKYOUUU <3

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Serenity Notion's avatar

Definitely found my new favourite substack member, the way you write is so refreshing and creative. Thank you for sharing this!

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Sakhi Singh's avatar

HEY! That’s so kind of you!! I am so honoured! thankyouuuu <3

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Ritwik Upadhyay's avatar

This was so entertaining yet striking.

Your writing style is so clever and beautiful.

What you said is absolutely true.

Many men only look for cute girls and treat them as eye candy. They do all sorts of things to impress the girls. But there are only a few who see the human behind the girl and try to understand them and their feelings on a deeper level. That’s how a perfect relationship breeds into a successful one.

Loved this post!!

Keep going!♥️✨

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Sakhi Singh's avatar

you’re absolutely right. it’s all about mature and healthy communication. thankyou so much for reading this! so glad you liked it :)

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jess's avatar

Absolutely loved this and can totally relate 😭

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Sakhi Singh's avatar

hahaha ikr! THANKYOU FOR READING <3

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Abhishek Singh's avatar

haha. oops. ouch. sorry.

Very interesting read. Hopefully there would be a part two with a happy ending 😅

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Sakhi Singh's avatar

hahaha hopefully! thanks for reading <3

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Aayushi Pawar's avatar

Dude, honestlyyy so good and a bit terrified for the future but so good!!

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Sakhi Singh's avatar

hahaha oh things can be better out there definitely. thankyou for reading’

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Halima Ahad's avatar

I absolutely loved this piece!!! So relatable and really made me smile 🥰

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Sakhi Singh's avatar

hey, thankyou <3

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Sakhi Singh's avatar

it’s my favourite job

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